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8/21/2014 1 Comment

The Day Mom Let Me Down

Originally published in 
The Christian Science Monitor
A Fourth Course of Chicken Soup for the Soul

As I sat perched in the second-floor window of our brick schoolhouse that afternoon, my heart began to sink further with each passing car.

This was a day I'd looked forward to for weeks: Miss Pace's fourth-grade end-of-the-year party. Miss Pace had kept a running countdown on the blackboard all that week, and our class of nine-year-olds had bordered on insurrection by the time the much-anticipated "party Friday" had arrived.

I had happily volunteered my mother when Miss Pace requested cookie volunteers. Mom's chocolate chips reigned supreme on our block, and I knew they'd be a hit with my classmates. But 2 o'clock passed, and there was no sign of her. Most of the other mothers had already come and gone, dropping off their offerings of punch and crackers, chips, cupcakes, and brownies. My mother was missing in action.

"Don't worry, Robbie, she'll be along soon," Miss Pace said as I gazed forlornly down at the street. I looked at the wall clock just in time to see its black minute hand shift to half-past.

Around me, the noisy party raged on, but I wouldn't budge from my window watch post. Miss Pace did her best to coax me away, but I stayed put, holding out hope that the familiar family car would round the corner, carrying my rightfully embarrassed mother with a tin of her famous cookies tucked under her arm.

The 3 o'clock bell soon jolted me from my thoughts, and I dejectedly grabbed my book bag from my desk and shuffled out the door for home.

On the four-block walk to our house, I plotted my revenge. I would slam the front door upon entering, refuse to return her hug when she rushed over to me, and vow never to speak to her again.

The house was empty when I arrived, and I looked for a note on the refrigerator that might explain my mother's absence, but found none. My chin quivered with a mixture of heartbreak and rage. For the first time in my life, my mother had let me down.

I was lying face-down on my bed upstairs when I heard her come through the front door.

"Robbie," she called out a bit urgently. "Where are you?"

I could then hear her darting frantically from room to room, wondering where I could be. I remained silent.

In a moment, she mounted the steps - the sounds of her footsteps quickening as she ascended the staircase.

When she entered my room and sat beside me on my bed, I didn't move but instead stared blankly into my pillow, refusing to acknowledge her presence.

"I'm so sorry, honey," she said. "I just forgot. I got busy and forgot - plain and simple."

I still didn't move. "Don't forgive her," I told myself. "She humiliated you. She forgot you. Make her pay."

Then my mother did something completely unexpected. She began to laugh. I could feel her shudder as the laughter shook her. It began quietly at first and then increased in its velocity and volume.

I WAS incredulous. How could she laugh at a time like this? I rolled over and faced her, ready to let her see the rage and disappointment in my eyes.

But my mother wasn't laughing at all. She was crying.

"I'm so sorry," she sobbed softly. "I let you down. I let my little boy down."

She sunk down on the bed and began to weep like a little girl. I was dumbstruck. I had never seen my mother cry. To my understanding, mothers weren't supposed to. I wondered if this was how I looked to her when I cried.

I desperately tried to recall her own soothing words from times past when I'd skinned knees, stubbed toes, or given in to disappointment. I strained to remember, for I knew that I needed just the right thing to say. But in that moment of tearful plight, words of profundity abandoned me like a worn-out shoe.

"It's OK, Mom," I stammered as I reached out and gently stroked her hair. "We didn't even need those cookies. There was plenty of stuff to eat. Don't cry. It's all right. Really."

My words, as inadequate as they sounded to me, prompted my mother to sit up. She wiped her eyes, and a slight smile began to crease her tear-stained cheeks. I smiled back awkwardly, and she pulled me to her.

We didn't say another word. We just held each other in a long, silent embrace. When we came to the point where I would usually pull away, I decided that, this time, I could hold on, perhaps, just a little bit longer.

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8/15/2014 1 Comment

Best Friend I Ever Had

Hi y'all. Here's the story of my very best childhood friend. I still miss him. 

A Tale of Canine Courage
By Robert Tate Miller AUGUST 31, 1995
The Christian Science Monitor
A Fourth Course of Chicken Soup for the Soul

The ice looked like daggers hanging from the gutter outside my bedroom window that winter day in 1968 when I first laid eyes on Fritzy. We piled in the family wagon that morning and headed out past the frozen corn fields and icy streams to the county kennels. We were going to get a dog. I pressed my nose against the car window, breathed on the cool glass, and wondered what he would be like. Would he shake hands, roll over, and chase squirrels? 
Each passing fence post drew me nearer to my most cherished aspiration - a dog of my own. The pandemonium as we walked through the kennel door was deafening. How we would wade through the canine chaos to make our decision was beyond me. Then, right in the middle of the tumult, silence caught my eye. He was sitting quietly and confidently in a corner cage, seemingly oblivious to the rancor raging around him. When I approached, he lifted his paw between the bars, and I took it. A handwritten sign at the top of his stall read, ''Collie/Shepherd.'' He pressed his nose against the door, and I rubbed his head. 
Ten minutes later he was sitting in the backseat of our car. 
"His name is Fritzy,'' Grandmother announced that night as we watched him wolf down his inaugural meal. ''After your father's first dog.'' 
And so it was. Fritzy adjusted quickly to life at our little inn in the North Carolina mountains. Whenever guests would arrive, he would trot out to greet them. When they took their afternoon strolls, he was a cheerful escort. Fritzy's walking services became so popular that Dad had to finally institute a sign-up sheet to satisfy all the walkers vying for his camaraderie. 
When we sold the inn and moved to town five years later, Fritzy settled into restful retirement. The highlight of his day was when I came bounding through the front door after school. He would slip and slide across the tile entryway and then leap into my arms as if he had just won the doggy lottery. One Friday afternoon my father announced that we were going away for the night. Each year we took a journey across the mountains to his hometown of Knoxville, Ky., for a day of outlet shopping and sightseeing. As we loaded up the car, Dad informed me that the motel where we would be staying didn't allow dogs, and therefore Fritzy wasn't coming with us.
''He'll be fine,'' he assured me. ''I left him extra food and it's only for the night. He won't even know we're gone.'' My heart sank like a bowling ball in a swimming pool. We had never left Fritzy alone overnight. What would he do? What would he think? 
As we pulled away down the street, Fritzy stood watching from the edge of the yard, his ears pricked up and his tail wagged skeptically, as if to say, ''You must be kidding.'' I couldn't sleep that night. All I could think about was a lonely, frightened dog wondering why we had deserted him. 
It was just after 6 o'clock when we rolled into our driveway the next evening. There was no enthusiastic greeting. No euphoric yelping. No Fritzy. Night fell and no sign of him. We went from neighbor to neighbor, house to house. Each shake of the head drove me closer to despair. ''Please, God,'' I prayed kneeling by my bed that night. ''Bring Fritzy home safe.'' 
But a week passed and no Fritzy. I went to school and tried to concentrate, but all I could do was think about my missing dog somewhere out there wandering the lonely backroads. Each afternoon I would bolt out of school and run all the way home. But when I burst through the door and into the house I would be greeted only by stillness and my mother's sad smile. 
''What's taking God so long?'' I asked mother one night as she tucked me in. 
''Just hold onto hope,'' she said quietly. 
''I don't think I have anymore,'' I whispered. 
''As long as you come running up those steps every afternoon and fling open that door, you have hope,'' she replied as she switched off my light. It was right then and there that I decided my hope needed a little dusting off. I determined that, no matter how discouraged I was feeling, I was going to open that door with hope.
Another week passed and hope seemed harder and harder to come by. But I kept at it, determined to make it my own. Then one afternoon I arrived home to find Dad's truck parked in the driveway, and I wondered why he was home from work so early. I paused just outside the driveway and gathered my hope before going inside. When I was sure that I was all hoped up, I opened the door and stepped inside. The hallway was empty, but I could hear the soft murmur of my parents' voices behind the kitchen door. All of a sudden, Mother cracked the door just enough to peer out at me.
''Hi, honey,'' she said smiling. ''I have a surprise for you.'' 
With that she swung wide the door, and Fritzy bolted past her like a wild boar. He slipped on the slick tile and crashed into the wall, got up and slipped again until he finally regained his balance and vaulted into my arms. I tumbled backward as he coated my face with licks. 
Around the dinner table that night, Dad related how our intrepid dog had found his way several miles across town to the office of a friendly veterinarian who had taken care of him once years before. For two weeks, Fritzy had been fed, brushed, and bathed, while he patiently waited for us to find him. The vet had been listening to the radio that morning when our lost-dog announcement caught his attention and he knew he had the culprit. That night as Dad tucked me in he asked if I had been afraid I would never see Fritzy again. ''No,'' I said. ''I knew that if I kept opening that door, one day he was going to be behind it.''

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8/8/2014 4 Comments

The Most Beautiful Girl I Never Knew

The Most Beautiful Girl I Never Knew
The Christian Science Monitor

By Robert Tate Miller MAY 15, 1997

Her name was Jamie Heckman, and she was the prettiest girl at Flat Rock Junior High. But, where "pretty" often opens doors to teenage popularity, Jamie was scarcely a blip on our school's social radar screen. She had few friends, and I wasn't among them.

The year was 1976, and I was a lanky eighth-grader looking to clamber up the precarious junior-high social ladder. I aimed to take my place at the popular table where I knew seating was limited, and my hopes for junior-high immortality rested on my ability to walk the walk, talk the talk, and choose my friends wisely.

Jamie was not on the approved list, though the reasons for her absence were murky. Apparently, she had shown something less than adoration for one of the girls in the upper echelon. And if I was to break into their coveted circle, then I had to learn to share their enemies as well as their friends.

While it didn't take a concerted effort to avoid conversation with Jamie, learning to dislike her was problematic. She simply had no strings with which to attach my enmity.

We spent a fair amount of time together that year, Jamie and I. We both rode bus No. 63 to and from school every day. She was a year older - a ninth-grader - and I'd sometimes steal a glance at her from my perch in the back of the bus as she sat gazing out the window at the rolling meadows of the North Carolina countryside. When we'd pass in the hall I'd say hello, but she'd look away or stare straight ahead as if I weren't there.

'ROBBIE, will you sign my annual?" I looked up from my school-bus daydream, and there stood Jamie. I glanced around to see if anyone was watching, but it was the last day of school and the bus was almost empty as it neared the end of the line. I had never heard her speak before and, even though it was a small school in a small town, I was surprised she knew my name.

"I guess so," I muttered nonchalantly, and she sat down beside me and handed me her yearbook. So as not to be impolite, I reached into my satchel, fetched mine, and offered it to her as well. She looked at me for a moment as if waiting for a starter pistol, and then she clicked her pen and got down to business.

As I flipped through the blank white pages of Jamie's annual, I suddenly felt sorry for the friends she never made and wondered if she felt the same. I scribbled my standard, "Have a nice summer and stay out of trouble," and was done in 30 seconds. Jamie was just getting started.

She took her time leafing through my book, reading what others had written and smiling and chuckling at their junior-high attempts at humor. I couldn't help wondering what she must think of me.

When she'd finished her cursory glimpse into my 13-year-old life, she located her picture, signed over her face with a broad-stroked John Hancock, and then found a white space all her own to pen her message.

When I tried to spy what she was writing, she thwarted my efforts by shielding the page with her arm. I looked out the window as if the passing fence posts held far greater interest, but all I could think about was getting my book back so I could read what it was she was so closely guarding.

As the bus rolled up to her stop, Jamie closed my book, dropped it on the seat beside me, and headed for the door without a word. Just before she descended the stairs, she looked back at me and smiled. It was the first time a girl had ever smiled at me that way, and as the bus lurched away from her stop, I wanted desperately for her to turn and smile at me that way again.

But she kept walking without a glance back in my direction. The last thing I saw was her blond hair tossing lightly in her wake. I would never see her again.

IT was on a summer evening some 20 years later that I stumbled upon her memory. I was rummaging through the storage room in my basement. There I discovered a long-forgotten box splitting at the seams from the weight of my tattered yearbooks. I plucked one out of the box, blew off the dust, and turned to her face.

She was looking up at me from another lifetime, and at that moment I suddenly knew why Jamie Heckman was so reviled by the girls from the popular crowd: She was stunning. Her long, flowing blonde hair, beautiful face, and luminous gentle eyes seemed to be keeping some enticing secret that she had no intention of sharing.

"It was jealousy," I said aloud to an empty room. What was mysterious to a 13-year-old boy seemed so clear in the dim storage-room light of adulthood. I turned to another page, and there it was:

"To Robbie, a nice guy and nice-looking, too. If only you were one year older. Hmmmm.... I'm moving to California this summer. Write me sometime. Love, Your Future Friend, Jamie."

I read the words again and again. I strained to decipher a faded address she'd scribbled below her message as if she hadn't had time to finish it as the bus pulled up to her stop for the last time.

I put away the books to gather another decade's layer of dust and thought about Jamie. Where had life taken her in the years since? Had she grown up and married? Did she have a daughter of her own with those same soulful eyes?

Just before drifting off to sleep that night, I tried to remember the names of those I had so long ago sought to impress. While they had long faded from my memory, Jamie's smile was with me still.



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7/27/2014 2 Comments

My Friend Kim

My amazing friend Kim Lattanze passed away in an auto accident in 1986. Years later, the Chicken Soup for the Soul people called and asked me to contribute an essay to their latest compilation Chicken Soup for the College Soul. I wrote about Kim and how she reached out to me - a shy, gangly college boy. The editors decided to edit out the news of her passing in the final version of the story. Here it is:


My Friend Kim - Chicken Soup for the College Soul

I’d seen her around campus long before I pledged the Kappa Sigma fraternity the winter of my sophomore year. I’d admired her from afar—the epitome of the untouchable college beauty. I’d decided that if I were forced to choose one perfect girl, she would be the one. Even though our paths crossed several times a day, I felt as if she lived in some remote corner of a distant universe. I was sure she had no clue I existed.

She was there the night, several weeks into my pledgeship, when I was invited to join the brothers at a local honky-tonk. A favorite band was playing that night, and I welcomed the chance to get out of my stuffy dorm room and away from the grind of studying.

I arrived late and took a seat at a table alone in the back of the room. The others didn’t notice me from their front row of clustered chairs near the stage, but I didn’t care. I was in no mood to socialize with the same slave drivers who made me scrub the floors and take out the trash. I made a pact with myself to hang out for fifteen minutes and then beat a hasty retreat.

I heard a familiar laugh. . . . Then I saw her. She was sitting among them, and I wondered who had made her laugh, wishing it had been me. She seemed to shine, making everything and everybody else in the room fade to insignificance. I looked around and wondered if anybody else saw her, but they all seemed too caught up in their corners of conversation to notice. How could they not? She was stunning. Radiant. I discovered that if I shifted my chair a little to the left, I had a clear view of her. I could watch her surreptitiously—the band in front of her providing the perfect cover.

I imagined myself sauntering up to her and asking her to dance. What would she say? Would she just laugh or simply look right through me? Maybe my voice would crack, and I’d turn and slink away as if it had all been a mistake. Then I could simply spend the rest of my college years going around corners and taking roundabout routes to avoid seeing her.

At that moment, she turned toward the back of the room—her eyes searching as if she’d felt my thoughts on her. I blushed bright red when her gaze rested on me. I saw her lean over and whisper something to one of the brothers, and then she got up and weaved her way back through the cluster of tables. She was coming toward me.

For a moment, my heart began to race, thumping so violently I was sure she could see the fabric on my shirt moving. I looked over my shoulder and saw the “Restroom” sign. I breathed a sigh of relief. Who was I kidding? I took one last sip of my ginger ale. It was time to go home.

“Hey, Rob, what are you doing back here all by yourself?”

I looked up, and she was standing right in front of me. She was smiling as if we’d known each other all our lives. I swallowed hard. My voice vanished into thin air. She pulled out a chair and sat down at my table.

“How’d you know my name?” I finally managed to mumble, several octaves higher than normal.

“I asked around,” she said with a twinkle in her brown eyes. “I always make a point of knowing the names of all the cute guys on campus.”

I flushed a deep crimson, and even though I’m sure she noticed, she didn’t mention it. She took a sip of my ginger ale and began to talk. She told me all about herself. Where she grew up. What her family was like. Her favorite movies, what she liked to eat, her hopes and dreams and disappointments. Fifteen minutes turned into a half hour, an hour became two. We talked and laughed like old friends. There were people all around and a band playing somewhere behind us, but I’d long since lost consciousness of the din of voices, the music, the smell of smoke. We’d slipped into our own world—one where a new friendship was being born.

By the time the band finished its third encore, Kim Lattanze had stepped off the pages of my imagination and into my life. She hugged me good-bye at the door and walked off into the night.

We became the best of college friends in the months and years that followed. On graduation day, we hugged good-bye and promised to always stay close. At first, we kept our pledge with cards, letters and numerous phone calls. Sometimes we’d run into each other at some alumni gathering or football game. She’d take me by the hand and pull me to a corner, where we’d take up right where we left off as she’d pepper me with questions about my family, career and love life. We’d always leave with a promise to be a little better at staying in touch.

But soon the times between promises grew longer and longer, and our paths took us in different directions. She moved to Atlanta and became a buyer for a department store, and I eventually packed up and drove to California to try my hand at screenwriting.

Fifteen years later, my thoughts sometimes still drift back to those college days. I recall an evening—a moment kept alive in the memory of Kim’s smiling eyes. One small but unforgettable minute in time. A shy boy, a beautiful girl and the precious gift of friendship she’d brought to my table that night.

And now, when I invariably find myself scanning the corners of rooms at parties, I stay vigilant—always on the lookout for that timid stranger who might feel a little out of place, a little left out. I can recognize myself in those bashful souls, and then I think of Kim. What would she do in a situation like this? I walk over and say hello.



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7/21/2014 1 Comment

First Love Hurts the Most

I continue to be a lazy blogger by simply posting essays I had published long ago. Hopefully, this one never gets old.

Calling on a Girl Named Becky

By Robert Tate Miller MARCH 3, 1995 - The Christian Science Monitor

'MAY I help you?'' the man behind the counter at the ceramic shop asked. I barely heard him. My gaze was transfixed by the pretty teenager perched on the stool beside him. Her curly brown hair, round rosy cheeks, and shimmering green eyes were so distantly familiar. Once upon a time, eyes like those had captured a schoolboy's heart.

In the summer of 1973, Becky came to work as a waitress at my family's quaint stone inn in the mountains of North Carolina. She burst through the swinging kitchen doors one June morning just as I was sitting down to breakfast. It was love at first sight.

Becky was 16. I was 11. She was pretty, vivacious, and outgoing. I was shy, a little on the pudgy side, and, heretofore, more inclined toward bullfrogs and tree climbing than creatures of the fairer sex.

But there was something about Becky. The certain way she tossed back her head whenever an unwelcome curl drifted down over her eye. Her habit of chewing on the nail of her pinkie finger when she was lost in thought. The way she gracefully tucked her pencil behind her ear after taking an order. Becky was no garden-variety girl.

''What's that?'' Becky would ask innocently, pointing to some imaginary speck just south of my Adam's apple. I always fell for it, and she relished bringing her finger up to pop me on the chin when I looked down. ''Gotcha gain,'' she'd say grinning.

The summer of '73 Becky gave me a boy's greatest keepsake -- attention. She was never too busy to share a secret, a joke, or a playful flick of a wet dish towel. In return, I cleaned off her tables, fetched her soft drinks, sneaked her extra desserts, and worshiped the ground she walked on.

''I think he's cute,'' Becky whispered one afternoon just loud enough for me to overhear. ''Especially when he blushes.''

''Becky, I love you,'' I boldly ventured one morning into the bathroom mirror. ''I'll love you till the end of time.''

Unfortunately, our time was sliding by like a well-waxed shuffleboard disk, and there was nothing I could do to slow it.

''Robbie, can I talk to you for a minute?'' Becky asked one stormy August afternoon. My heart was racing. What could she want? Would she finally confirm her love for me?

''I'm going back to school soon,'' she announced. ''I won't be around much anymore.'' I swallowed hard. ''You've been a great friend,'' she said quietly. ''I'll miss you very much.''

I struggled to stay composed. I had worked so hard for her to see me as a grown-up and I didn't want to fall apart now. But when she grew blurry, and my chin began to quiver, I knew there was no turning back.

''I love you,'' I said abruptly and then cried my eyes out.

For a few minutes she watched me -- a bit startled by my sudden sobbing confession. Then she gently took my hand.

''Robbie,'' she spoke softly. ''I think you're very special and I love you so much as my friend. But I'm not the one for you, and I think, deep down, you know that.''

Slowly, like a steam engine pulling into the station, my sobbing ground to a halt.

Becky smiled at me until she forced me to smile back. ''Someday,'' she confided, ''you're going to find a girl so wonderful you'll know she's the right one for you. Then, you'll forget all about me. I promise you.''

''May I help you,'' the ceramic-shop man repeated a bit more firmly. ''Is Becky in?'' I muttered finally. ''Are you a friend of hers?'' he shot back suspiciously.

''Sort of,'' I mumbled. ''About 20 years ago she spent the summer waitressing at my family's inn. My father and I were waxing nostalgic last evening, and her name came up. He said I might be able to find her here.''

His furrowed brow softened and he extended his hand. ''I'm her husband. This here's her daughter.'' The girl snatched the phone from the wall and began dialing. ''Becky's at home today,'' the man explained. ''She's not been well.''

''Momma, somebody here knows you.'' The girl spoke in her customary mountain twang. ''He says you used to work at his family's inn.'' She listened for a moment and then wordlessly handed me the phone.

I stared at it in my hand as if holding one for the first time. She smiled a dimpled smile that seemed to say, ''go ahead.''

''Hi, Becky,'' I stammered a bit too energetically. The other end of the line was completely still. Five seconds. Ten.

''Robbie, is that you?'' The voice I knew. It was deeper, more grown-up -- but unforgettable.

''It's me,'' I assured her.

''Well, how have you been?'' she asked with a smile in her voice.

''Fine, Becky. How about you?''

We reminisced -- small talk among long-lost friends trying to fold 20 years into a five-minute phone conversation.

''I have such happy memories of that summer,'' Becky said at last. ''I am so touched you remembered. I only wish I could be there to see you because, you really made my year.''

''But, Becky,'' I said smiling at the girl across the counter, ''I'm looking at you right now.''

''Now, don't you go and fall in love with my daughter,'' she teased.

My cheeks flushed bright red. I was 11 again.

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7/15/2014 0 Comments

Once Upon a New Year's Eve

Okay, so another piece that ran a long time ago. There are quite a few of them out there and, if I keep this up, I won't actually have to write a new blog for quite some time. This is the story of a magical New Year's Eve I spent in Times Square. It's a memory and a moment I will never forget. The essay ran in the Christian Science Monitor in January of 2000. 

A year for which I'd waited a lifetime

By Robert Tate Miller JANUARY 20, 2000

Ten ... nine ... eight ... seven ... six...." As I stood near the corner of 44th and Broadway counting down the final seconds of 1999, I craned my neck up toward the sparkling ball perched high above Times Square and tried my best to freeze the moment in my mind. I wanted to be able to look back on this in years to come and vividly remember the giddiness I was feeling.

The seconds ticked down, and I felt the surging energy of the crowd rise to the moment. I couldn't help but wonder: What would I remember most about this night? Would it be the hail of confetti, the shouts of jubilant revelers, the shower of fireworks arcing high above the throng? What would, in years to come, stand out foremost about this single instant in my life?

I had dreamed of this night since I was 14 - back when I used to slip out the back door of the family home on balmy summer evenings. I'd gaze up at the heavens through the Carolina pines - stretched out on the soft wood of the backyard picnic table. It seemed such a distant event then. Nearly a quarter century in the future - so many starry skies in between, so much life to be lived first. Back then, I couldn't help pondering what the world might be like. Where would I be? What would I be doing? Would I be rich? Successful? Happy?

I decided to make a pact with the future. I'd be there that night. Somehow, someway, I'd make it to Times Square to bear witness to the celebration. It seemed a reasonable dream, then. It was one I could tuck away on a shelf until the far-off day arrived.

"Are you crazy?" concerned friends asked me when I told them of my New Year's plans. Nearly 2-1/2 decades had passed since I'd made my picnic-table promise. It was Dec. 31, 1999, my date with destiny. Anything could happen, they warned me. A bomb might explode. Riots could break out. The world might end.

I thanked them for their concern, assured them that I would be all right, and boarded a northbound train in Atlanta. Destination: New York City.

There's simply no place like Manhattan at Christmastime. The lighted tree at Rockefeller Center towers majestically over the ice where skaters crowd the rink. Hordes of tourists press against the railing with cameras flashing. The shop windows on Fifth Avenue are a carnival of red and green, decorated with lights, miniature trees, and pine-coned wreaths. I strolled along and breathed it all in: the electricity, the anticipation of what was soon to transpire. The moment was at hand.

The temperature hovered near 38 degrees F. as I walked up 86th street to catch a subway to Times Square early the morning of New Year's Eve. I arrived just before 9 a.m. and, in a steady cold drizzle, staked out my position with a $10 lawn chair I'd snatched up at a 7th Avenue hardware store. Fifteen hours to go.

People had already gathered by the thousands, jockeying for the best spots, settling in for a long, cold day of waiting and waiting and more waiting. Who were these strangers sharing my corner of Times Square, I wondered. Where did they come from? What had possessed them that they would willingly stand side by side, like human trees in an overgrown forest, to await with bated breath the passage of a single second in time?

"Where are you from?" I finally asked the two young women directly in front of me. "Germany," they responded with smiles.

"Where in Germany?" an eavesdropping Australian man asked.

"Just north of Berlin," they answered in unison.

"I was just there a month ago," another man chimed in. Soon, three rugged-looking characters from Philadelphia joined the conversation, and then a couple from Florida asked if I'd take their picture. It wasn't long before this group of shivering strangers had formed our own Times Square neighborhood, a borough rich with diversity, one that was destined to live only for a day and then disband.

"We need a name," one of the young toughs from Philly announced.

"How about 'Sbarro Eastside Posse'?" his friend offered, referring to the fact that we were just east of a chain restaurant of that name on Broadway.

"It suits us," said a young woman from San Francisco.

As the day rolled past, the group of strangers barricaded in an overcrowded section of pavement at the northwest corner of 44th and Broadway forged a New Year's bond. We played cards, laughed at one another's jokes, shared chairs, food, blankets, and stories from our dissimilar lives. Each hour we'd stand together and count down the seconds along with a giant digital clock, as another time zone rang in the new year somewhere far away.

The German women, Astrid and Claudia, wept when they realized their homeland had slipped into 2000 without them, halfway around the world. We gave them hugs, took their picture, and shared their mixed emotions.

At 10 minutes to midnight, I stood up on my tiptoes and looked over a sea of shining faces on all sides as far as I could see. Millions of eyes, all gazing up in joyous anticipation at a sparkling silver ball waiting to fall on the year 2000.

"Remember these next 10 minutes," I shouted over the din to my smiling new friend, Ian from Melbourne. "The memory will have to last you the rest of your life."

Five minutes to go, and I thought again about my question: What would I remember most about New Year's Eve 1999? After a long, cold day of waiting, I finally knew. The answer was all around me in the luminous eyes of these adventurous people. They had come from the four corners of the earth - from big cities and small villages, jungles and beaches, mountains and valleys and plains. They'd traveled here, just like me, to experience a tiny, crowded piece of history.

In a few minutes, we'd all turn and walk away. We'd return to our separate lives. But, before we did, we would stand together one last time and, in a unified act, step onto the threshold of a new millennium.

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7/8/2014 1 Comment

A Writer's Christmas in June

Hi readers! Here's a look back at the summer of 2003 when my NBC movie, "Secret Santa," was filmed here in LA. Good times! 

By Robert Tate Miller, Contributor to The Christian Science Monitor DECEMBER 12, 2003
LOS ANGELES — As snowflakes swarmed in the glow of the streetlamp, actress Jennie Garth - decked out in a heavy overcoat and gloves - fanned herself to stave off the heat.

Blizzards in Los Angeles in June are only a slightly less frequent occurrence than one occurring off-camera that day: I was a writer standing in a place few writers are welcomed - the set of his own movie.

Six months had passed since I'd first read the treatment for the TV movie that would become "Secret Santa." Producer Beth Polson's synopsis put forth a whimsical supposition: What if a cynical newspaper reporter journeyed to a town in search of a mysterious philanthropist - and ended up finding something more than she'd bargained for? I felt the yarn held a plausible premise and I buckled down to pen the script.

CUT TO: ONE MONTH LATER. The teleplay was complete, and I'd arrived at the moment screenwriters most dread. My newborn "baby" was off to live with a new family, and I wouldn't be granted visitation rights. It was only my second movie, but I'd been around enough to know that writers were about as welcome on a movie set as a rabid possum at a Brownie campout.

The first time out, I'd naively phoned the producer on set to ask if I could drop by and say hello. He abruptly cut off the conversation, promising to call right back. The next time I saw him was five months later at a media event where he looked at me as if he was struggling to put a name with my vaguely familiar face. Needless to say, I was wary that "Secret Santa" would merely be a sequel to the previous unpleasantness. Then, I received the shock of my professional life.

"Just so you know," Beth informed me the day before production began, "you are welcome on set."

I asked her to clarify when I was welcome. "Always," she said succinctly. "After all, you're the writer."

From Day 1, the cast sought me out to offer kind words about the script and did their best to make me feel welcome. When I went out of town one Friday, Garth welcomed me back on Monday with a playful scolding for writing a scene that had kept her busy plucking flecks of mud out of her hair all weekend.

Being on set, I learned that the best laid scenes can be ruined in an instant by a barking dog, a backfiring car, or an irrepressible sneeze. I discovered that the writer's cavalier choice to set a scene at night could throw the whole week's shooting schedule out of whack. I learned that "check the gate" means it's time to move on to the next set-up, and that a "martini" shot says it's almost time to go home. I learned that a good director can make the impossible a reality and a good actress can turn a simple line into a magic moment.

The huge crew had even managed to tiptoe around a nuns' retirement home. ("Shhh," Beth admonished everyone one night. "The nuns are sleeping.") The sisters had agreed to let us invade their shaded sanctuary after approving the script and learning that June Cleaver herself, Barbara Billingsley, would be a resident in the film home. So far, the 18-day shoot was just swell.

SCENE TWO: "The movie's short," Beth greeted me one morning. "We need more meat."

I felt I'd been socked in the solar plexus. The dilemma was immediately clear: How do I add to the script without it looking as if I was adding to the script? I desperately scoured each page, looking for any scene that could use a bit of flesh and then, just when I was about to admit defeat, I remembered Scene 84, the walk. This was our reporter's romantic stroll with the mysterious millionaire. I flipped to the scene, and my hunch was right. She did most of the talking. Maybe it was time to find out more about him.

"I like it," Beth said the next day. Our male lead now had a page worth of personal history to learn - and fast.

CUT TO: "Report to wardrobe immediately." It was the last night of shooting, more extras were needed for the Christmas party scene, and I was a warm body. The costumer took one look at my 6-foot, 4-inch frame and announced that she didn't have a jacket my size. Minutes later, I was standing on my mark wearing a yard-sale sweater. I was ready for my Hitchcock moment. Then the director called "action," and I proceeded to blindside a cluster of fellow extras. "Cut!"

"It's a wrap." The famous words were spoken just after midnight. As I watched the cast and crew file away, I wished I could cling to my Christmas in June just a little bit longer.



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6/30/2014 2 Comments

Miracle on Highway 25

Miracle on Highway 25

     It was the autumn of 1965 when my dad decided to cut ties from his secure nine to fiver in Atlanta and move our family to an uncertain future in a tiny western North Carolina mountain town. Dad loathed sameness and monotony and especially detested working for someone else. He wanted to be bold, take a risk, and make his own way in the world. And so, sight unseen; he made a deal to purchase the Bonaire Motel in Flat Rock, North Carolina.

     My mother may have been skeptical of this uncertain venture; she may have been downright terrified of taking a young family with two little kids and heading off to parts unknown. But there was no way she’d ever tell my father that. Mom was solidly in Pops’ corner, for better or worse, and would be for the rest of his far-too-brief life.

    And so it came to be that on an autumn evening in `65 we Millers packed into the family wagon and headed off on the five-hour drive to our new life. I was only three years old at the time but still remember the trip clear as yesterday. In those days, kids were allowed to bounce around a car like a jumping bean on speed, and nobody paid it any mind. There were no seatbelt or car seat laws. You could hang your body out the window and yodel at the moon if you wanted.

    It was already past my bedtime when we started our journey, so I curled up on the floor beneath the glove compartment. It was a wonderfully dark and comfy little nook, and the rhythmic clacks of the highway pleats soon lulled me to sleep.

     I awoke sometime the next morning in my new bed in our new home – which happened to be the dank basement of a quaint little roadside motel. Truth be told, the Bonaire looked a bit like Bates Motel - only no scary house on the hill. From the lobby in the main building, you looked out through a large picture frame window on a row of eight rooms just across the parking lot. The rates ranged from six to eight dollars a night.

    It was still peak autumn colors season when we arrived, so the joint was packed. And, though the first few days were a little chaotic for my parents, they were happy as clams in their new life. All was well for a few weeks…and then it wasn’t.

    The problem with North Carolina’s stunningly colorful fall is that it doesn’t last. The bright hues fade, and the leaves die and shrivel and fall. And, for my novice innkeeper parents, that fact of nature was not good news. Soon the leafy lookers had all gone home, and the Bonaire parking lot was left empty.

    My parents weren’t worried at first. They figured it was just a temporary downturn. But, as days turned into weeks and autumn turned to winter, Mom and Dad’s initial optimism faded.

     Each evening, my mother would stand in the lobby and gaze out the window at the darkened row of empty rooms. She’d watch and wish and pray.

     “Please, God. Send us guests for our rooms.”

     It was a simple prayer that she repeated again and again. Whenever a car would come rolling down Ol’ Highway 25, she’d perk up, thinking maybe her prayer had finally worked. She watched for the car to slow, to flip on its blinker and turn into the motel lot. But, despite her tirelessly hopeful one-sided conversation with God, there were no blinkers that winter. The cars kept going. 

     As the icy January of 1966 morphed into frigid February, things began to look bleaker and bleaker. My parents’ meager savings had been used up. My father was despondent. Again and again he lamented his mistake in moving us away from our safe and secure life. He talked about packing us up and heading back to Atlanta. Maybe he could beg for his old job back. Mom convinced him to wait a little while longer. She wasn’t ready to give up – just yet.

     Each night she continued to hold her fruitless vigil, staring out that lobby window at the cold and empty rooms. “Please, God. Send us guests for our rooms. We’re good people. Our rooms are clean and comfortable. Please help my family.” She knew that God was up there and that He had to hear her, so she couldn’t understand why he wasn’t helping out. “Show me what I need to know,” Mom despaired one night. “Show me the way.”

     Then a flicker of a thought crossed her mind. What if she was going about it all wrong? What if the tone of her prayer had been misguided all along? She knew at that moment that she’d had it all backwards. My mother would call this inspiration an “angel message.”

She suddenly remembered Elisha’s prayer for his servant in II Kings:

“Open his eyes, Lord, so that he may see.”

     My mother asked that God open her eyes. In an instant, she switched from fear and doubt to gratitude and hope. She’d been so busy asking God to bail out her family, she’d forgotten to give thanks to God for all the blessings He’d bestowed on her family. The Millers had so much to be grateful for, and she really had no business asking for more. She knew this was the answer to her prayers. Mom remembered how Jesus thanked God before he raised Lazarus from the tomb:

“Father, I thank thee that thou hast heard me.”

 

     She realized that - if she truly believed in the power of prayer - she shouldn’t wait to give gratitude until after she received what she was praying for. She needed to be grateful first to prove her faith. So, right then and there – without any change in the present desperate circumstances - she gave thanks to God. It was like an impromptu Thanksgiving in the dead of a dark winter’s night. She knew at that moment that everything was going to be okay.

     “Within just a few minutes,” my Mom recalled years later, “a pair of headlights appeared down Highway 25. As the car drew near the motel, the blinker came on. As they pulled into the drive, another car appeared, then another and another. In less than fifteen minutes there was a line of people waiting at the counter to check-in. The rooms were filled that night, and, in all the years we owned that motel, we never faced that problem again.”

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.” James 1:17.

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6/16/2014 1 Comment

A Love Letter to Sarah Jessica Parker Twenty-six Years Too Late

Dear Sarah Jessica Parker:

There is zero point zero percent chance you remember this, but once upon a time in a land far away we spent a couple of days together. And you were awesome.

Summer, 1988. Jacksonville, Florida. I was working as a promotions producer (called ourselves promosexuals) at Channel 17, the local NBC affiliate. My job was to try and coerce our handful of viewers (we were number three in a tiny market) to watch our tired reruns of The A-team, Good Times and Magnum, PI. It was a thanklessly unglamorous job that paid peanuts and only sounded impressive to those who thought anything that had to do with TV was “really cool.”

One day, our Promotions Director called me into his office to inform me that my job description had been expanded to “celebrity liaison.”

“Ever hear of an actress named “Sarah Jane Parker?” he said.

“No,” I said.

“Doesn’t matter,” he said. “I need you to schlep her around for a few days. Can you handle that?”

“Sure,” I said.

I did my research and found out that Sarah Jane Parker was, in actuality, Sarah Jessica Parker.  She was starring on a little known NBC Show called “A Year in the Life.” The show was a critical darling, so the network was doing anything it could to pump up the ratings. They were sending one of their promising young starlets out on the road do a little local promotion. We were just one of a dozen plus stops on her promotional tour. My job was to pick her up at the airport and shuttle her around for a couple or days. I was bored, so it was a welcome diversion.

I watched an episode of her show to make sure I knew who she was and thought she was pretty cute with her otherworldly 1980s hair.

As I drove to the airport to meet her plane, I steeled myself. I’d heard horror stories of prima donna diva TV stars and imagined her arriving with a cadre of handlers. She was going to blow her stack when she discovered that I’d come driving a crappy Honda Civic no bigger than a shoebox.    

I was a little taken aback when Sarah Jessica Parker walked off the plane alone and smiling. She came right over to me. “You’re Rob?” she said.

“Yes,” I said.  She was a bit more petite than I’d imagined, had arguably the bluest eyes I’d ever seen, and the hair was even more impressive in person. Her smile was no faux I-know-people-are-watching-so-I’m-trying-to-seem-like-a-nice-person smile. It was genuine. I knew first impressions could be deceptive, but this three-named chick seemed sincere.

“Hi Sarah,” I croaked like Peter Brady on the episode where his voice is changing. “Welcome to Jacksonville.”

I asked if there were others, and she assured me she was all alone. Wow, no entourage. What kind of TV star was this?

I apologized for my car. I assumed that all celebrities drove around in stretch limos all day, and I wanted her to know that this would not be happening while she was with me. She put me at ease, told me that her car was also a compact. Sure, I thought. Sure, it is.

I made idle chitchat as we hummed down I-95 towards her hotel. I was nervous enough around ordinary members of the opposite sex, but this was a celebrity and a dad gum attractive one at that. I couldn’t even believe we were breathing the same air much less sharing the same cramped little stick shift.

As we rolled by the lights of downtown, I gave my star passenger a quick rundown on the lovely the city of Jax. I pointed out the Jacksonville Landing in the distance, told her that was where all the cool shops and restaurants were located.

“Wanna go hang out?” she said.

I wasn’t sure I’d heard right. “Excuse me?” I said.

“Would you like to hang out for awhile?”

“Uh, sure,” I said. “Fine. Let’s go hang out.”

I took her to a quiet little seafood joint on the St. Johns River. It was just starting to rain, and Sarah Jessica suggested it would be fun to eat outside under an umbrella.

“Reminds me of Paris,” she said as we settled into our table-for-two. “Okay,” she said. “Ask me a question. Anything you want to know.”

I hadn’t exactly prepared myself for an interview, so the best I could blabber was “Do you know Rob Lowe?”

She smiled and said that he was one of her best friends and a good guy. “Next.” I followed up with the similarly scintillating query, “Do you know Michael J. Fox?” She told me how they’d recently gone out on a date, and the paparazzi had followed her into the bathroom.

By the time the check arrived, I’d worked myself through the entire Brat Pack, and she’d fielded my fan boy questions with patient enthusiasm. I found out that she’d been Annie on Broadway and had been in a movie with Kevin Bacon called Footloose.

It was after midnight when I finally dropped her off at her hotel. I told her I’d see her first thing in the morning.

For the next couple of days, Sarah Jessica Parker and I were pretty much inseparable. I drove her to radio and newspaper interviews and promo shoots. I’d let her use my office phone to call boyfriend Robert Downey Jr. who was shooting a movie called “1969” with another of her best buddies, Keifer Sutherland, just up the road in Savannah.

In between our official business, we’d go to the mall or to eat or to just hang out and talk. There was something about her that struck me as unusual – or least something I hadn’t experienced all that often. She was just…nice. This pretty TV star was unselfish and thoughtful. Whenever she ran into a store to pick up something for herself, she’d always bring me back something, too. A candy bar. A Slurpee. Cracker Jacks. Whenever somebody approached her to say hello or ask for an autograph, she was genuinely friendly and approachable. Sarah Jessica Parker seemed to be head over heels in love with life – and the wacky people that populated hers.

And SJP seemed to intuitively know the exact thing to say to make someone feel ten feet tall.

There was a particularly shy and awkward young man at the station and, when I introduced Sarah to him, she seemed to intuitively sense it. “Sarah. This is Joe. People say he looks a little like Keifer Sutherland.”

“Oh, he’s MUCH better looking than Keifer,” Sarah said. Joe blushed bright pink, and I wondered if she knew that she’d made his life.

By the time I drove my celebrity guest back to the airport to drop her off for her flight home to LA, she had stopped being a TV star. She was just Sarah – a cool girl who I really liked hanging out with. I felt comfortable enough with her to ask her advice.

“Sarah, I’m thinking of quitting my job and moving to LA. I think I want to be a screenwriter.”

“Do it,” she said. “If you don’t, you’ll regret it. Never be afraid to be bold.”

As I dropped her off at the gate and said goodbye, she gave me a hug. “Look me up when you come to LA. I’ll fix you up with someone.”

I smiled and said I would.  She turned back and blew me a kiss just before disappearing down the boarding ramp.

As I drove back to the TV station and my ordinary celebrity-free life, I thought about what Sarah Jessica Parker had said about boldness. Six weeks later, I rolled out of town with my little compact crammed to the gills with my meager possessions. I was headed west.

I made it to Hollywood four days later with Sarah Jessica Parker’s phone number in my shirt pocket. I never called her. Maybe I didn’t want to bother her, maybe I wanted to make something of myself first. Before long, her promising career took off full flight. SJP became a household name, an American icon. I watched from a distance and wondered if her legion of fans really knew what an amazing person she truly was. I decided to take her advice and be bold. I wrote a movie script. It made the rounds for a few years and then…one day – the phone rang.

When it finally got made, I found it ironic that my first movie starred Kristin Davis – one of SJP’s Sex and the City co-stars.

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9/21/2013 2 Comments

A Birthday Song

One morning John Evans shuffled into my life. A ragged-looking boy, he was decked out in oversized hand-me-down clothes and worn-out shoes that split apart at the seams.

John was the son of black migrant workers who had recently arrived in our small North Carolina town for a season of apple picking. These laborers were the poorest of the poor, earning barely enough to feed their families.

Standing at the head of our second-grade class that morning, John Evans was a hapless sight. He shifted from foot to foot as our teacher, Mrs. Parmele, penned his name in the roll book. We weren't sure what to make of the shoddy newcomer, but whispers of disapproval began drift

"What is that?" the boy behind me mumbled. "Somebody open a window," a girl said, giggling. Mrs. Parmele looked up at us from behind her reading glasses. The murmuring stopped, and she went back to her paper work.

"Class, this is John Evans," Mrs. Parmele announced, trying to sound enthusiastic. John looked around and smiled, hoping somebody would smile back. Nobody did. He kept on grinning anyway.

I held my breath, hoping Mrs. Parmele wouldn't notice the empty desk next to mine. She did and pointed him in that direction. He looked over at me as he slid into the seat, but I averted my eyes so he wouldn't think that I held promise as a new friend.

By the end of his first week, John had found firm footing at the bottom of our school's social ladder. "It's his own fault," I told my mother one evening a dinner. "He barely even knows how to count."

My mother had grown to know John quite well through my nightly commentary. She always listened patiently but rarely uttered more than a pensive "hmmm" or "I see."

Can i sit by you? John stood in front of me, lunch tray in hand and a grin on his face. I looked around to see who was watching. "Okay," I replied feebly.

As I watched him eat and listened to him ramble on, it dawned on me that maybe some of the ridicule heaped on John was unwarranted. He was actually pleasant to be around and was by far the most chipper boy I knew.

After lunch we joined forces to conquer the playground, moving from monkey bars to swing set to sandbox. As we lined up behind Mrs. Parmele for the march back to class, I made up my mind that John would remain friendless no longer.

Why do you think the kids treat John so badly?" I asked one night as Mother tucked me into bed.

"I don't know," she said sadly. "Maybe that's all they know."

"Mom, tomorrow is his birthday, and he's not going to get anything. No cake. No presents. Nothing. Nobody even cares."

Mother and I both knew that whenever a kid had a birthday, his mother would bring cupcakes and party favors for the entire class. Between my birthday and my sister's, my mom had made several trips herself over the years. But John's mother worked all day in the orchards. His special day would go unnoticed.

"Don't worry," Mom said as she kissed me good-night. "I'm sure everything will turn out fine." For the first time in my life, I thought she might be wrong.

At breakfast the next morning I announced that I wasn’t feeling well and wished to stay home.

"Does this have anything to do with John's birthday?" Mother asked. The bright-red flush on my checks was the only answer she needed. "How would you like it if your only friend didn't show up on your birthday?" she asked gently. I thought it over for a moment and then kissed her good-bye.

I wished john a happy birthday first thing in the morning, and his embarrassed smile showed me that he was glad I had remembered. Maybe it wouldn't be such a horrible day after all.

By midafternoon I had almost decided that birthdays weren't that big a deal. Then, as Mrs. Parmele was writing math equations on the blackboard, I heard a familiar sound coming from the hallway. A voice I knew was singing the birthday song.

Moments later Mother came through the door with a tray of cupcakes aglow with candles. Tucked under her arm was a smartly wrapped present with a red bow on top.

Mrs. Parmele's high-pitched voice joined in while the class stared at me for an explanation. Mother found John looking like a deer caught in car headlights. She put the cupcakes and gift on his desk and said, "Happy birthday, John."

My friend graciously shared his cupcakes with the class, patiently taking the tray from desk to desk. I caught Mother watching me. She smiled and winked as I bit into the moist chocolate frosting.

Looking back, I can scarcely remember the names of the children who shared that birthday. John Evans moved on shortly thereafter, and I never heard from him again. But whenever I hear that familiar song, I remember the day its notes rang most true: in the soft tones of my mother's voice, the glint in a boy's eyes and the taste of the sweetest cupcake.

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    Robert Tate Miller was raised in the North Carolina mountain town of Hendersonville and began writing at an early age. He began his writing career with homespun essays of small town life that were published in such publications as Reader's Digest, The Christian Science Monitor and the Chicken Soup for the Soul book series. He moved to Los Angeles in the late 1980s and wrote hugely successful family-oriented telefilms for NBC, ABC Family and the Hallmark Channel. Robert lives in Northridge, CA..   


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